Pregnancy in Korea

Taegyo and toe sweat: This mother’s guide to learning Korean

As you may or may not know, we are now expecting baby No. 2 in our family–due to arrive in October.

Pregnancy in Korea as a foreigner is nothing new to me–in fact, as an American expat, I know more about prenatal, birthing, and postnatal health in Korea than I do in America. And, despite any bumps in the road with the first experience, I wouldn’t want to have my second child anywhere else but here, once again.

One thing I really love about Korea is their care for pregnant women. For these precious ten months, women are encouraged to turn their bodies into watchful, caring, healthy vessels for these coming additions.

And just as important as the mother’s health is the baby’s health. As I’ve written about before in the past, the Korean practice of “taegyo” is a common exercise.

Taegyo (태교) is a very interesting concept. It basically translates to “prenatal culture,” or the education of your baby while in the womb.

I did this plenty when Finn was in the womb. Reading books, trying to avoid violent or crude TV shows, etc.

This go around, I’m taking my first Korean language class since the one I took when I was pregnant with Finn four years ago. This time, though, it’s an intensive course offered by the local university. Three hours every night, Monday through Friday.

Finn is basically at an utter loss at what I could possibly be doing in this so-called class (“Do you go to gym school, too, and play with balls?”

I love it. It’s three hours where my brain dusts its cobwebs from the corners and hangs new words and rules like colorful flags and decorative pendants. The neurocircuitry of my brain is re-wiring, and it makes my body happy (just like exercise, food and general happiness). BTW, read this cool article on what happens in your brain when you’re learning, or practicing, something new.

I know all this learning and re-wiring is making baby happy too. It’s funny how we adults can get in a life rut, where we don’t challenge ourselves to be uncomfortable enough to actually learn something new. I’m just as guilty of it as you. But for these three hours a day, Monday through Friday, my toes sometimes sweat as I mumble my way through a response to my teacher about what I like to do in my free time, in Korean.

And I know this toe sweat is more than a result from the current stickiness of changma (장마), or rainy season. It’s pure, unadulterated, uncomfortable learning.


If you’re interested in learning some Korean, we highly recommend Talk to Me in Korean, a great online curriculum with free podcasts, videos and learning materials. And, of course, you should definitely check your local university or international center for actual Korean classes.

Babywearing

In Korea, many women choose to wear their babies rather than stroll them around. I love this. I have two carriers and they have both been used religiously since Finn was born.

Also, Korea has a traditional carrier called a “bodegi,” which is basically a blanket that ties around your body. I see old grandmothers carrying the tiniest babies on their backs this way all over Korea. I don’t have one of these, but I love it!

 

Showered with love (and needles)

Annyong! Lindsay here on a relaxing Sunday afternoon. This is the first day in a long while that I don’t have  to-do list (or the corresponding honey-do list). Getting ready for baby has been keeping us working in overdrive.

I just got my weekly pregnancy update e-mail this morning (36 weeks!) and am convinced the baby has dropped (meaning he will make his appearance in the next few weeks.

Yesterday, a few good girl friends hosted  a baby shower for me and little Finn. We came up with the idea (thanks to my friend Summer back home in the States) to decorate onesides, which my family sent over with their own decoreated ones.

We didn’t have a sewing machine and our scissors were meant for cutting kimchi, but we had a great time sitting around decorating the onesies. From Florida fish fins to a dazzling tuxedo (only to be worn to the opera or to meet chicks says the creator), the onesies are so much fun.

I really hated that my mom, sisters, and all the other wonderful women in my life weren’t here to take part, but it was nice to have their contributions mailed here beforehand.

Whit and I feel so blessed to have such wonderful friends and family all over the world. Our little Finn is one lucky little kid.

Paintings I crafted for Finn’s room. These have animal sounds written in Korean. I love how animals make different sounds in different languages!

 

Finished products!

 

 

A onesie sent from Tony and Caroline in Canada.

 

 

 

Suzanne made these awesome hats for father and son.

 

 

 

 

 

We decorated the onesies with old clothes.

 

Guests are starting to wonder if they accidentally happened upon a labor camp.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love this! Cassie, the creator, says this can only be worn to the opera or to meet girls.